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ahh! so long didn't update alr..was sOO busy the whole week!! working working working..and time just flew past..

loll on fri, the hr manager asked mi to go interview room..asked mi..to name a price for my pay. wHEEE! finally free from agency le! =).. soo yepps happily i name a nice price and asked if it was too high. she said yes initially, cos for a "no experience person" it's abit high...but in the end agreed on that price since the transport is quite heavy on my side. =D! yeA!! PraIsE tHE LoRD~! :)

so now..i dun haf to work so hard, for overtime pay and everything le!! hehe..negotiated with her about coming back on sats..and she say..oki lo onli nid to come back on alternate sats. =D

but think it's quite cool now, cos if my break time continues to be one hour, =PP i only haf to work 7.5hours a day!! =P hmmm hope they dun shorten my breaktimE and i will be a hAPPY gIRL. HAhA.

lallass...

hmmm on a more serious tone...sometimes a conflict or disagreement arises when one party feels that THAT particular action should be known to the other party..as a natural instinct, as common sense. but yet to the party at fault, it might not to be common sense at all, and he/she might not have learnt the seriousness of their action at that point of time when they did that mistake.so we shld never expect friends around you to be like you, holding the same maturity level as you, cos all u get will only be disappointment and resentment, since 2 person are always different, in a way or another. so maybe you can advise your that friend at fault, and hopes she can change for the better, cos if she did "it will be for her own good in the future..since working life nids that kind of maturity she/he lacks."

so usually, when the "more mature party" scolds, it's out of goodness, that he/she hopes you, their good friend, will change for the better.

but again, time shld be given for the "party at fault" to change, and scolding and lecturing shld be minimized. of cos in this case the fault guy must change..and if he/she still refuse to change though time is given, then just treat it as a gone case and move on. why be so angry with him/her for?

well yest..discussed this qns: what exactly is maturity?

"maturity is when you can see both side of the story..and not be biased and only see one side of story and argue on ur point"

and i would like to add on that, really, maturity is shown when you are able to accept other's immaturity.

and for me i think i still have room for improvement. =)

chEERs~