valentines!and prelims! =)

oya!! forgot to post abt valentines day..whee!! had alot of fun that day.. cos i wore my pink dress bought by elena and manping(thanks girl!!)..=))...hee and worst/lame thing is..i wore it to church. hahha ok la not that bad..just that i felt sOO SHY wearing so little to church, which is like supposed to be a holy place..>.<

soo was beside john trying to camoflauge into the background.

and pastor continued his preaching on the top 5 needs of woman and man, taken from dunno which research after they surveyed 40 000 married couples. LOL it's DAMMM good..i dunno how to explain, but the drama was fantastic, about each of the needs. and surprisingly, or maybe not..both gender's 5 needs are v different from one another. (NOW we know why it's hard to keep a marriage strong! =P)

ya!! ok here it goes...

TOP 5 needs of woman
1.affection
2.cOMMUNICATION.
3.honestly and openess.
4.fiancial support (OMANN!! i was sure the guys was feeling something at this point!!=P lol and the girls were "amen" to it..haha!)..
bibical verse..1 Timothy 5:8, "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and specially for those of his household, he has denid faith and is worse than an unbeliever."
5.family commitment

TOP 5 needs of man
1.sexual fulfillment
2.recreation activities
3.an attractive wife
4.Domestic support (like cooking nice food..don't nag..tuck the kids in to sleep fast..and giving the guy a quiet place to rest and feel happy)
5.admiration-but not fake. (cos of their BIG breakable ego ;))

and he say as much as a guy has an animal instinct for sex(toking abt after marriage when the woman start feeling tired easily)..woman wants affection ALOTTTTT too, and can't feel happy without it, just like the guy can't feel happy without IT. yaa soo both must meet the needs of one another then can go well.

somehow when he toking abt the points for guys, i felt so indignant!! like when he ask woman to give in and allow the guy to *** them if the guy has been an affectionate husband, and also slim down and all and look good for the guy after pregnancy..it's like...AHH why are they so superficial! >.<

hahaha but hMMm i guess the guys present then also felt this way, when he tok about how the guys MUST learn to be romantic, and sweet,and shower the girl with affection, make them feel like princess..etc..no matter how they are brought up..(in a home where no physical affection is shown,etc)...and also to communicate with them constantly..though they may not have so much need to talk.

aNDDd he said something like for guys they have a low need to talk naturally, at least lower than woman..but for woman talking is a v impt part of life. LOL i was like totally nodding my head in approval!! =PP

yaaa so if both party meet each other needs(esp this 5) to be able to live happily ever after..

cool ritE!! =D..the other 2 pts will be on nxt sat, which i will be having my stats exams..AHHH i want to gOO for serVICE!! >.<...

okii back to valentines day..then saw my cg members and think they were all shocked i was wearing a dress..lol..

took a few pics but HAHAA i shall not put on the blog...! =PPpp

yeaa then john brought me to this ulu semb place for dinner.. and yeA! went to watch movie and reached home super late..=))

hehe! =D..

falling back to earth, i am like 3days away from my prelims. and HAHAHA i just have this weird feeling like..i really dunno what to expect for it. and the nearer the date, the more slack i seem to become, like i am now here blogging,and watched 2hours of tv before this, as if i have all the time in the world..hmm i do hope i can pass all the subjects...

God bless mee!!!>.<..

*on her engine tomorow*

SIGh. imissyou.=(